Redeeming "Beautiful"

Men... If you don't see the prospect of, or the current form of your Wife's, nay, the Mother of your child (please God let her soon be your most possibly Beloved Wife)... If you don't see her pregnant and postnatal body at LEAST as perfect, attractive, and exciting... If you don't see her new body as a mother -or otherwise- as your very STANDARD for beauty, by which none other could possibly compare... You are blind, you are a fool, and she deserves better. Your CHILD deserves better. From You. Jesus DIED for this. Get on that. That is to say, REPENT...

Right now. Please...

Women... if you are wrecked by fear over the hit to your vanity, or the possibility of rejection, or the loss of your ability to get men to stare that would be brought on by having a baby... You have been lied to about who you are, who your baby is, and what in this world is worthwhile. Worse... you have BELIEVED that lie, and gripped it in your heart, where it will later grow like a seed into poisonous barbs of resentment toward your own CHILD for existing, poisonous barbs of resentment toward the FATHER of that child for their part, and poisonous barbs of resentment toward your SELF for letting it happen. You are a fool, and you are blind. Let Jesus be a fire to that evil seed, and let Jesus be a light to see, to seize, and to sow the TRUTH of your BEAUTY into the deepest part of your heart, by which you could have the most A-MA-ZING fruit. Jesus DIED for this. Get on that. That is to say, REPENT...

Right now. Please...

The concept that a Woman who has given birth has a less attractive body now than she had before her pregnancy is a disgusting lie and should be purged from the minds and mouths of all who carry it with them. People decide what they find beautiful and attractive, and if you don't believe this you are a fool who has believed yet another lie. I choose to find my Wife as the very definition of attractive, seeing all other women as beautiful, but severely lacking when compared to my wife. I find her, as she is now, more radiantly sexy and worthy of gawking at and ogling than I ever have, and I insist that when we are 40 years down the road and still alive (God willing) she will at that time be more beautiful to me than she has ever been as well. Love is attraction, love is a choice, and my wife is HOT whether she or anyone else thinks so or not.

I'm very excited about having children, and I'm thrilled to love and adore my Wife and her body through every change physical she encounters.